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Sex just makes me sick after being raped

I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile now. We want to be together physically. I have been raped before and I am just scared to do anything and I have no interest. Its not that I dont want to, sex just makes me sick now. What can I do to change the way I feel? He is a great guy and understands and loves me all the same, he does not try to get me to do anything I do not want to do. I just want to be able to do this for him. What do you guys think I should do? Please dont say tell someone, unless you have been in the situation. It is really not that easy.

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Answer #1

Yeah. It isnt easy. Admitting it is the hardest thing you can do. And I dont know how you’re feeling. I know feelings of shame and guilt, and just feeling like you’re tainted can sometimes happen. But if you want to move on, if you want to live your life normally, you need to get it out. This place has a chat function. Consider it. http://www.rainn.org/

Answer #2

go with the flow. at some point ull feel its the right time. and remeber to relax, it will help.

Answer #3

I know how you feel. I was raped when i was 7 and after that i was emo…i have like 4 stalkers now and it still kind of scares me

Answer #4

I know how you feel. I was raped when i was 7 and after that i was emo…i have like 4 stalkers now and it still kind of scares me

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