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What are some ways that I can turn on a girl enough to get her vagina to open?
What are some ways that I can finger a girl?
every girls different just try some stuff out and see how see reacts. try the nipples, that normally gets girls all "hot and bothered" The clitoris is the place to be for most women. When she's adequately self-lubricated, or you put some water-based lube on your fingers, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in circular motions. Her reaction will let you know that you're on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. At no point, however, should go so fast that you end up losing focus.
If she yells out something like "Don't stop!" then don't stop. Some women, however, like it when you take a break away from the clitoris and proceed to insert those very same fingers inside their vagina at a rhythmic pace. Figure it out.
You just have to figure it all out. What I have found out is that if you lick her a little and then get yourself into a position you cant suck on her clit which is right above her vagina opening, and put a finger in her vagina and move it either in and out picking up some speed or just going slow, or making a come here motion but slowly at first picking up speed. It is also really nice if you put one finger in her vagina or as many as she can fit or would like and move them in and out slowly at first and pick up speed as if you were fucking her but with your finger. For me the faster the better, so just see what she likes and try.
