What are guys really like?

There’s a lot of different kind of guys out there… some more sex addicted than other, but you can’t ever label all guys in the same folder… there’s always differences.

Yes there are guys who do not respect girls and only see them as a tool to get off their sexual lusts when it’s really itching in the crotch. But don’t mistake these kind of guys with the kind of guys who just want you to feel good. What I mean is that some guys respect girls more than they respect most other things, but they only show this through sex. They know how good sex feels to them, so they want their girlfriend to feel good too by making love to them. This is how they show that they care. They don’t try and have sex just for their own pleasure, but just forget that their partner might think that they do, since the guys don’t try and show their affection for their girlfriends another way.

We can’t forget those guys who show their respect in any other kind of way than through sex. It seems more like they avoid sex or rather they never make the initivative to have sex. With those guys it’s always the girl who needs to start the act, which makes the girl wonder whether she is attractive or not, cause he doesn’t try and make love to her. So what’s up with these guys? Well could be that they don’t find their girl attractive, it could be that they are just boring and don’t really like sex… but it could also be because they don’t want to appear like these sexfreaked guys, who are bastards in girls’ and are worth nothing whatsoever. I gotta admit I am pretty scared how I appear to my girlfriend on those matters. Just cause guys got that bad reputation of being sex-addicted, I have to be scared, I don’t find its really fair, but can’t do much about it but cope with it, and have a talk with my girlfriend if she feels I am more interested in her body than in her.

I hope it cleared up some things, not only for you but also some of the other girls who might prejudge guys on the subject :)