What am I doing wrong?!

Okay, so I really like one of my good guy friends, he’s actually the only guy I really LIKED, rather than just thinking a guy is hot, ya know? I’m a very outgoing-touchy person. (oh btw, he just ended a “thing” with one of my close girlfriends) He would come to me for adivce about how to “get” other girls, these girls being my friends I help him. I act like I’m super happy for him, but really it’s killing me! (not literally) Now that he is totally single, no hooking up, or things with other girl. I flirt with him 10x more than I usually did. I can’t tell if it’s working, if he likes me, or if he see’s me as a friend. We both make each other laugh, he told me I’m easy to talk to, I sometimes touch his arm or something when I talk (I do it naturally). We both jokingly make fun of each other, or mock something.. then laugh. I seriously can’t tell if he likes me, and I don’t know if I should tell him how I feel, or if I’m doing something wrong.. aah HELP. I really want to get him to like me as MORE than a close friend. I’m down for any advice. THANKS! :)

Answer #1

I really think that he ONLY sees you as a friend. Hes told you that your easy to talk to, he would ask you advice about how to get other girls…thats what friends do.

Answer #2

I’m guessing this is the same guy you posted your last question about? I think the best thing you should do is to just come out and tell him how you feel. if you don’t and he moves on and finds someone else you will be kicking yourself forever wondering what COULD have happened. talk to him, it’ll be worth it! good luck mate.

Answer #3

Thanks! But he flirts with me, but oh welll ! And no it is NOT the same guy. I don’t even want to get into that storyyy omg.

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