Who thinks I am being selfish with my boyfriend?

Well my boyfriend, his friends and I were great together then some issues happenned my boyfriend and I fought and now they think he deserves better. He’s desperately in love with me and we are planning to get married after we graduate from university and start work and get settled (we graduate in 6 months) our relationship is based on love..we are both virgins. He’s 22 and am 20. Now that his friends dont like me anymore..his relationship with them wasnt going well..just recently they started talking again. Now, everytime he says he’s going over his friends or going out with them I get a bad feeling and started being mean with him without telling him why..I dont want him to be lonely but I used to love them and now hate them..how can I get over this feeling?? Please help

Answer #1

I honestly don’t blame you for hating them. They have no right to try to control who is dating/marrying. Just tell him you don’t trust them and that don’t really like him going out with them just so he knows how you feel. Tell him you aren’t trying to keep him from going out with them, but after what they did to you that you don’t trust them and aren’t very fond of them. If y’all are really going to get married, then you need to be able to talk to him about this kinda stuff. If you can’t talk to him about it, then y’all aren’t ready to get married yet…

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