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I have a small group of friends that I hang out with in school. I consider my one friend to be my best friend because we have grown up together and we are more like sisters than just friends. A few weeks back one of the girls in our small group was having a birthday party and invited everyone in that small group of friends but me. I was devastated! I overheard some of the girls talking about it but it was pretty noticeable that they were hiding it from me including my best friend. I thought the birthday girl and I were pretty close being the fact that we have hung out outside of school several times and she has invited me to her past parties and we always talk at school. And as far as I know nothing happened between the birthday girl and I that would change our friendship. I do know it was wrong of my best friend not to tell me. I did ask my best friend to find out why I wasn't invited and all she kept saying was that I shouldn't let it bother me and that it wasn't my business. Do you think my friend should of stayed home with me or went to the party? I did google "Am I a good friend" and it said "take the quiz" so I took it and what do you know.... there was a question that said "if there was a party and your friend was upset that they weren't invited would you stay home with your friend or go to the party?" Well the answer was "there will be many parties but good friends are hard to find". What do you think??