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Was it wrong & what 2 do

Okay my mom trusted me enough to let me go to my friend’s [[we’ll call her may]] party and me, my friend we told her when we dance we wouldnt ‘grind’ on ea other And of course we did… There I met may’s cuzin and we were dancin like crazy…after about 4 songs he pulled me to a corner in da room den he made out with me then he fingered me & I didint say no… I bleeded from that

And now I feel like im never clean && I cant tell my mom because im afraid she will never trust me again

Was I wrong to let him touch me like that? What can I do?

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It’s wrong to let someone do sexual things to you that you are not in a longterm loving commited relationship: yes. Although, there is no sense on dwelling on it. The past is the past. I wouldn’t tell her mom, honestly because it could cause more drama than needed. Just dont make that mistake again. Also, the bleeding, he probley popped your cherry or was too rough with you, or both.

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