Should I be waiting for the right person?

Your 16, its not like you’re 40. The right person usually doesnt come into our lives after our teen years. The one we end up marrying. You sound like you have no respect for yourself that your willing to give up something so precious so thoughtlessly! Here are some things to seriously ponder> Sex. Why wait?

• Basically practicing abstinence has all the PRO’S – pre marital sex has all the CON’S!

• Don’t fall for the line that everyone is doing it. Many people talk as if they sleep with everything that walks. Its called BIG TALK – NO ACTION!

• Any line, any pressure for you to become sexually involved is not an expression of love.

• You might know of somebody who had sex last week because they were ‘in love’ – in fact, ‘madly in love’, and this week, well its over. Is that love?

• Many teenagers are so love-starved at home they trade their virginity for hopes of finding love. Girls particularly, seek love through sex, only to realize they had sex without love.

• Boys brag about their female exploits. The entire school will know that you are an easy mark. You will receive attention from the boys who only want your body.

• Promiscuous girls are popular only for sex, whereas virgins are admired for themselves.

Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life. The person you want to spend the rest of your life with and you can handle the consequences of your intimacy.

What men want women to know about men & sex… Having sex with a man doesn’t help him fall in love, make a woman more special to him, save a failing relationship or even guarantee a commitment will follow. When a man is serious about a woman, he will wait a long time for sex. A lot of men would even wait for marriage.

Bad Reasons for sex: · A need for sex. · You want the person to love you. · Social pressure to perform. · Nothing more to talk about. · Boredom. · A curiosity to find out if there’s any chemistry. · You want to make someone else jealous. · To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner. · You’re challenging a dare. · An attempt to solidify the relationship.

If you date and you don’t have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character.