Uguuuh. Help me.

I don’t think it matters that your father got married to another woman before he met your mom. I also dont think it matters whether or not you know that he was with another woman.

I dont think this is something to be worried about… what happened in the past, stays in the past…it wont change anything…

my dad was married and divorced before he met my mom. I wasnt aware until I was like 9. it really didnt make a difference and he didnt care that I knew.

Thanks.

It was before he met your mother - in the past…let it go.

I didn’t mean for it to be, so I’m sorry you took it that way. Re-reading it, I can see how you could though. I was trying to make you feel nonchalant about it by showing you how silly of a thing it was. I can see how if you read it (not knowing me personally) differently than I had intended that it could have come accross as harsh or callous. The don’t meddle part is there because you shouldn’t try to poke and prod them and try to stir the pot about this- if they want to talk to you about it, they will, if not, just let it go. I’m sorry it came across as harsh- that genuinely wasn’t my intention.

k ;)

What’s the big deal? Im certain your mom knows he was married before he met her… it’s before your time, and therefor none of your concern. My mom was married before she met my dad, and my dad was married before he met my mom. They both divorced their respective ex’s years before they met eachother. If your parents have been together all of this time, and you had NO IDEA about your dad’s ex-wife, then it’s not like they’re going to get back together. You’re being a bit silly about the whole thing. Just carry on like you’ve been your whole life. And don’t meddle…

Oh, ok. But, kdsmm, I think that you were a little harsh.

I hope not.