Is this what true love is like?

Sounds like a pretty bad obsession if you ask me.

Um first of all your 14? Right? Your not old enough to know what love is and neither am I. This sounds like infacuation. You will know when you love someone.

ive actually known people to fall in love young and get married and stay together all theirs lives. My grandma and grandpa got togetber when they were around 14 and got married, had kids and stayed together for about 20 years or longer! And I’ve even had friends tbat got together when they were like 10 and stayed with eachother ever since. Now they are also married. So its not impossible.

I never said it was impossible but he says “when I can’t hear her voice or see her face I’m in agony”. And that is where I said this is Infacuation. If you don’t know what that is it is when someone can barley go a minute without thinking about the other person. In other words “puppy dog love”. People can fall in love at a young age but the way he described it is INFACUATION.

ugh… why does no one understand exagerations (sorry if thats spelled wrong.). i didnt literally mean that i was in agony. i just mean… i don’t like being not in contact with her over, i don’t know, three days. my dog!!!!(in case anyone here is religous)

Okay now I understand. I understand when you say that. I haven’t seen my bf for like two-three weeks and it’s hard. If you explained your question a little better I wouldn’t have answered the way I have. I’m still not convinced it’s love. But if you feel that way who knows? Only you can decide if you feel that way. I didn’t mean to bash on you, I’m not that mean. I hope I helped you.

Dont you apologise ShyAne…you were right and gave a good answer to the question posted.You are not mean,you are very reasonable and maybe a bit too polite.

To me, personally, true love is much more then just a feeling. It involves how you treat the other person, how you make them feel, what you do and how you can be around them. It also involves the same things on the flip side.

Caring about them and wanting to be around them all the time is just a part of what true love is. The rest is something that’s constantly worked on and formed.

yes i know what infacuation is you dont have to be rude you said “ you don’t know what love is” and to me it sounded like you were saying its not possible for him to be in love if he doesnt know what love is. And I just simply replied that I’ve known a lot of people to fall in love at very young ages. So apparently they knew what love was. Lol

I wasn’t benig rude, I was being straight forward and if you don’t like it oh well.

i never gave a reason for you to be though. But I don’t care. Not going to argue about something as little and immature as this. Lpl.

Not exactly, sounds like a crush or being “in” love which is different than actually loving a person.

Good answer Mel !!!!

Being in love is alot more than just what he is saying. There is so much more to it. And for missing someone only after a few days, or weeks is nothing. Try going months at a time with no contact. If you can do that and make it work without cheating and so on and so forth then you know you’re really in love with someone. I would know. In the last 7 months I have only seen my husband about 3 weeks…

Well … sometimes it starts like that. But those whacked out feelings don’t last very long – or else you’d go crazy. Your feelings change and get a little more mellow and comfortable. Or not. Don’t worry about true love. Just enjoy those feelings while the last.

Being in agony sounds more like emotional immaturity. Dont by into all of that hollywood crap. You shouldnt need someone in order to feel good, that should come from within. Relationships are meant for augmentation, not completion.