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I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a month now (im 16 hes 18) and weve already done everything apart from sex, the thing is that this is the first relationship where I have actually done anything sexual with a guy, do you think its too soon? also hes not a virgin whereas I am, would you say its too soon to consider sex? just wanted some peoples views on this, cheers.

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Answer #1

to early.. how do you know thats hes not using you for sex? what if you give it to him and he dumps you amonth or 2 after.. you will end up regreting it.. I recommend you wait and when it feels right then do it

Answer #2

I think that sex is fine as long as you know that he wont leave you or treat you differently afterwards. be sure that you trust him and know that everything will be ok. you know? hope I helped

Answer #3

it is way to early to have sex but its your life and your desion. all I say is use protection!

Answer #4

It is definitely too soon. I personally think the everything else you’ve done in a month was too soon also. Just because he has had sex before, doesnt mean you have to rush into doing it with him. Sex so early in a relationship isnt a good thing, because for young teens, it tends to be the main focus, and all the more IMPORTANT aspects get shoved aside. How do you expect him to have any kind of respect for you if you give it all up so fast & easy? What does he have to look forward to in the future? Having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for women: because the buy has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her. Sounds like your both in lust with one another.

Answer #5

I personally think its way too soon but its completely your decision..not mine do what feels right

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