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What's going on with this girl?

i met this girl that i really like, she has a kid from a previous relationship but that doesnt bother me. we started dating, well i dunno really whats going on. she sadi the other week she wasnt in the right place whatever that means?so i played a cooler approach an we met up last week she asked me to go for a game of pool. so i did. she still texts me an that and she knows how i feel and i know she likes. but id dunno where the hell i am or what is goin on? well i do, but she gives me all these signals and its driving me crazy help me plz??

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Answer #1

Just stand by her hun, that is all you can do, however I don’t think it is a good idea if you go off with other girls though, this may provoke her. It will make her think “oh he isn’t bothered with me”

I’d try and have a word with her if i was you, send the kids away to their father’s and have a quiet romantic meal in for just the two of you, afterwards sit on the sofa and have a chat. If the chat goes well then i suggest a DVD or listen to some music, if it goes wrong, then best thing is to go out of the room into another sitting area and try and think over what she has said. Chances are she will feel awkward that you have gone out of the room (assuming the meal would be in your house) and she will come and find you (feeling guilty) so she will tell you some things. But not all.. don’t force it out of her, let her take her time.

Answer #2

i dnt know how much i dunno whts going to happen, its like a circle going round and round no matter wht she wnt open up 2 me, she is the best gal i ever met bt at the same time she is very confusing, she said she was happy to be friends for now bt i know deep down in her heart she wants more than that, but its like very hard to get it out of her. and the father still plays a key roll in the kids life! so this situation is hard to handle. ne other ideas??

Answer #3

This person is obviously feeling very insecure. You said she likes you.. but how much? Maybe just a friend, a close friend or is something gonna come of it?? These are questions that need to be answered by her only. She has a kid.. maybe she has worries for him/her… she doesn’t want them to be hurt by you if you were to hurt her emotionally as kids tend to get attatched to male father figures.

Ask her what she feels for you.. make it subtle

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