How do i get over asking for stuff that makes me feel awkward in bed?

So yeah there are things that i like in bed, that i don’t like too ask for because i don’t know how my lover will feel about it, One thing is Nipple licking i love licking her nipples and she loves it too i do it as much as i can….. i keep my shirt on during sex a lot due too just liking it on… i don’t know, but i was wearing this button-up shirt and she unbuttons it and starts playing with and teasing my nipples, Just in a mocking way kinda doing the same thing that i do too her nipples,,,, Only thing is… is it felt really really good, and it leads too one of the best orgasms i have ever had, But i have a hard time asking her too do it, because it makes me feel awkward and i avoid stuff that makes me feel awkward, How do i get over asking for stuff in bed that makes me feel awkward? in the end the point of sex at this point in my relationship is too make each other feel good so i don’t think it’s a big deal. it’s just a nerves thing…

Answer #1

Set that up to happen again, and when she starts in, praise her and let her know that it REALLY turns you on. You can groan; or you can VERY GENTLY press her face into your chest; or you can just say it in so many words while groaning and GENTLY pressing her face into your chest. Women are pretty good at picking up cues.

Answer #2

So your saying i should not Grab here head and just ram it into my chest with great force, i will keep that in mind

Thanks for the advice always nice too hear tips form a fellow Atheist…

Answer #3

So your saying i should not Grab here head and just ram it into my chest with great force, i will keep that in mind

Thanks for the advice always nice too hear tips form a fellow Atheist…

Answer #4

Unrelated…..Is your name a kickback to Umaro, the yeti you could recruit to fight for you in final fantasy 3 for nintendo?

Answer #5

*super nintendo

Answer #6

Nope it’s much lamer than that, it’s from a book, Umaroth ( oo-mare-oth) is the “king” of the dragons, the only game i can really even remember on SNES was lion king and Aladdin, I remember the first game i bought for my Sega tho…. Sonic 3D And OMG it was horrible the bad cam in that game sucked so bad it gave me motion sickness,

Answer #7

just ask. you should always feel comfortable with your sexual partner

Answer #8

Ive been thru the same thing with getting my husband not to be ashamed to just ask me or tell me how he liked it or what he wntd. The first time I took of his shirt and did that it blew his mind and I didn’t think much of it because like you said the point of the intercourse is to pleasure one another over time I picked up on his signs. But when trying a new thing we would always look for a reaction or ask in a sexual tone how we liked it.

Hope I Helped! :-)

Answer #9

Do you ever talk with your partner about sexuality and lovemaking when you’re not engaged in the act? Maybe that would be a less awkward time for you to bring it up. “Remember when you…?”

Answer #10

I already dealt with this issue, Yeah we talk a lot about sex, when we are not having it, sexual is a big part of our relationship… Also love so when she knows something makes me feel good she will do it… Turned out she enjoys licking my nipples…

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