Does it mean anything specific if a guy can openly hug other girls but doesn't hug you?

I’m friends with this guy and i’ve liked him since the beginning of the school year. We’ve gotten closer and talk to eachother and stuff but he still hasn’t tried to hug me. and i don’t think it’s that he’s shy because he’s extremely cocky. but then again every once in a while he’ll mention his ex. what should i do in this situation. i don’t know what else to do. are there any specific things most guys do when they like girls? I NEED HELP!

Answer #1

90% he is shy i am cocky as hell also. like really lol. and omg one time a girl went to make a move on me and i like moved omfg i was so pissed later on wow i should of made a move also damit! and shes like the hottest in the school! haha fml well like i said yeah i think he likes you or something cause he must be panic’ing. or u are just a lame =p anwser my question now? plz

Answer #2

i think my 1st anwser got blocked.. im like 60% sure he likes u because i am cocky like that and boy’s panic around girls if they are hot. unless they are g _ y. or u mite just be a lame :P

Answer #3

It is probably one of two things, though I’m sure there are many other possibilities; these are the only two that I believe are, socially, most likely. The first and, I believe, more likely scenario is that he knows you like him because of your body language, and he doesn’t want to encourage you. That doesn’t mean that he WON’T like you later on, but its possible, especially if he’s still referring to his ex and doesn’t seems to be dating anyone else, that either he still has feelings for her or they aren’t completely done with one another. (I’m starting drama, I know, forgive me.)

The other option is that he feels a little awkward around you. If he’s a cocky guy and is treating you a bit different, maybe he’s very attracted to you. Then again, maybe he just doesn’t feel like you WANT a hug from him.

No way to know right now, but the easiest thing to do in this situation, as with all things in life, is to just go talk to him. Don’t get all mushy and romantic, trying to convince him to love you, just tell him that you really like him and want him to know that you aren’t just talking to him to be friends. Don’t pressure him to respond because that will only piss him off. Do NOT decide to wing it and ask him what he thinks about what you’ve just said; no matter how well you know this dude, pushing a guy to tell you if he likes you or not will push him away. If he openly responds that he likes you too, then awesome, but most likely, even if he does like you, he’ll need a while to decide how he wants to respond to what you’ve said.

Walk away and when you see him later in the day, smile and just pretend you never said it. If he wants to persue the conversation, he will.

Answer #4

It is probably one of two things, though I’m sure there are many other possibilities; these are the only two that I believe are, socially, most likely. The first and, I believe, more likely scenario is that he knows you like him because of your body language, and he doesn’t want to encourage you. That doesn’t mean that he WON’T like you later on, but its possible, especially if he’s still referring to his ex and doesn’t seems to be dating anyone else, that either he still has feelings for her or they aren’t completely done with one another. (I’m starting drama, I know, forgive me.)

The other option is that he feels a little awkward around you. If he’s a cocky guy and is treating you a bit different, maybe he’s very attracted to you. Then again, maybe he just doesn’t feel like you WANT a hug from him.

No way to know right now, but the easiest thing to do in this situation, as with all things in life, is to just go talk to him. Don’t get all mushy and romantic, trying to convince him to love you, just tell him that you really like him and want him to know that you aren’t just talking to him to be friends. Don’t pressure him to respond because that will only piss him off. Do NOT decide to wing it and ask him what he thinks about what you’ve just said; no matter how well you know this dude, pushing a guy to tell you if he likes you or not will push him away. If he openly responds that he likes you too, then awesome, but most likely, even if he does like you, he’ll need a while to decide how he wants to respond to what you’ve said.

Walk away and when you see him later in the day, smile and just pretend you never said it. If he wants to persue the conversation, he will.

Answer #5

so you girls want to get huged i dont know but maybe not beacuse i have not kissed or huged a bunch of girls that i dont know so i think no and im 14

Answer #6

so you girls want to get huged i dont know but maybe not beacuse i have not kissed or huged a bunch of girls that i dont know so i think no and im 14

Answer #7

It sounds to me like he likes you but he may be intimidated by you because he likes you very much. you say that he is friend’s with you so…. why dont you ask him yourself?

Answer #8

me i umm do nothing im tooooo shy to get close

Answer #9

if i was u i wouldnt get into much of that sex and stuf stuf

Answer #10

what do you mean sex and stuff? this had nothing to do with sex, lol.

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