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How do I confront my sister about having condoms?

I have a younger sister she is 13 turing 14. I was looking in her bag (I was looking for my mp3 player I knew she had it) and I found condoms. she is way to young to be having this stuff or even thinking about it. how do I confront her about it. I don’t want her to know I was looking through her stuff but I want to make sure she is not having sex. I mean Im just worried about what she is doing. so someone help me!

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well I can’t be much help but you’re a good brother for caring about her. if she was a guy I’d say it’s no big deal, we carry around that stuff for no reason once soever but this is different… ummm… well first tell her you saw them but explain why you were looking through her stuff to begin with. tell her what you think and if you’re really close siblings than find out if she has or plans to use them in the near future. does she have a boyfriend because if she does then talk to him too but don’t let her know that you did because if she finds out she’ll hate you, and also don’t be an @$$hole or threaten him either because then he’ll tell her anyways. a big brother is a huge influence most of the time too so she’ll probably listen to you right away or at least think about it and decide she isn’t ready. but in a worst case scenario she does umm… “do it” don’t be completely devistated, at least she was smart enough to use protection, I guess that helps… I’m 14 myself so I’m kind of winging it here. this isn’t a good example but at least she won’t end up like m brother’s girlfriend, he knocked her up when she was 18 and they tried to work it out but they broke up a while ago. just try to stay on the positive side of things, ok?

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