So depressed

Why me?why dosnt it just go poof problem gone? I mean seriously how could anyone be happy in this world?

Answer #1

No one ever said life would be easy. It is up to each of us to look for the positives in our lives and to take the necessary steps that lead to our happiness. We can’t expect others to do if for us.

Part of finding happiness in our lives is to set goals. 1-month, 3-months, 6-months and a year. Then work at accomplishing them. They should be realistic goals. And, as we achieve them, we realize greater satisfaction in our lives and therefor a greater degree of happiness.

Another thing that can bring self-satisfaction and happiness is to branch out of our little private world and do things for others. There are lots of organizations where volunteers are needed and appreciated. If you know some shut-ins or elderly people, you can go by and offer to assist them. You will find that you not only brighten their day but that they brighten and improve your day.

Get out and get involved.

Answer #2

you live your life thinking “debbie downer” thoughts. stop being so dang negative, and your life gets better. you’ve heard the expression “water off a duck’s back” or “roll with the punches”…start living them. have a positive outlook on life, and life becomes more positive. you were complaining about living in alaska and all the sunshine you get. stop thinking that’s bad!!! chances are your gas is cheaper up there than anywhere else in the us…20 hours of sunshine a day keeps an otherwise cold place kinda warm…there’s always light so you can work on projects around the house…it’s summertime. you’re supposed to be happy!

Answer #3

Its because some people choose to run away from their problems instead of facing them. If you realize what is causing your sadness and get rid of each problem one little step at a time, you would find yourself happier. Some things you cant control, but most things you can if you try. Just face your problems and don’t expect everything to get better all at once. Don’t take everything on at once either, one step at a time.

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