So confused help its about boys

Your not ready for a relationship but you’d think about being “friends with benefits”? That will ONLY express how easy you are. I dont know how any young teen can get messed up with a friends with benefits, or why. They obviously dont know what kind of emotional feelings can come out when you get involved in that situation. If your not ready, then deal with your feelings FIRST before jumping into the unknown, or your just going to mess up your life. Friends with benefits is NOT the answer.

I agree with the first poster, if you know that you are not fully interested in having a relationship, be honest. If you can work up the nerve, see if he would be interested in a relationship with benefits. I mean, to be honest, I have no idea why you are so worked up over your ex. You only went out with him for a week you said, so I dont understand why you have a difficult time getting over him. Right now, make a list of things that make a good boyfriend, imagine the perfect man. Now make an X next to each thing your ex was not. Trust me, you will be fine and totally over him.

You mean you had SEX a week after you & your ex started going out?

tell him you’re not ready. If your heart isn’t into the relationship he’ll notice for sure.