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Me and this boy been talking for like 3 months and he asked me out like 2 days ago and I said yes and I only seen him 2 times before he asked me out and I really like him but is so shy around him and I still luv and miss my ex he was my first but the week aftha I had my first he dumped me but I just cant stop thinkin about him and I dont really want to be in another relationship becuase of my ex and the boy im with now its weird but I just want him to be a friend with benifits I am just so confused should I giv him a chance and be in a realtionship or should I just tell him im not really ready to be in another relationship and we should just be friends with benefits

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Answer #1

I been with my ex for 3 in a half months not just a week I was saying the week after I had my first time with him he dumped me and I’ve been thinking im not going to be friends with benefits ill just try to get in a relationship with him

Answer #2

Your not ready for a relationship but you’d think about being “friends with benefits”? That will ONLY express how easy you are. I dont know how any young teen can get messed up with a friends with benefits, or why. They obviously dont know what kind of emotional feelings can come out when you get involved in that situation. If your not ready, then deal with your feelings FIRST before jumping into the unknown, or your just going to mess up your life. Friends with benefits is NOT the answer.

Answer #3

I agree with the first poster, if you know that you are not fully interested in having a relationship, be honest. If you can work up the nerve, see if he would be interested in a relationship with benefits. I mean, to be honest, I have no idea why you are so worked up over your ex. You only went out with him for a week you said, so I dont understand why you have a difficult time getting over him. Right now, make a list of things that make a good boyfriend, imagine the perfect man. Now make an X next to each thing your ex was not. Trust me, you will be fine and totally over him.

Answer #4

You mean you had SEX a week after you & your ex started going out?

Answer #5

tell him you’re not ready. If your heart isn’t into the relationship he’ll notice for sure.

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