Should I move on I say yes

Hi there: I have been doing online dating for a while okay this man and I have been emailing one another going on a month okay he leaves for the 4th and we talk on the phone sends a few emails okay he went 5 days before he emailed again tells me what’s the hurry slow down his job keep him busy okay then this week it’s today before he emails that’s a week he’s been married and divorced he says, now I sorta got mad today his email he says he was up my way yesterday. okay but you cannot try to find me we live 40 minutes away from each other I know and have moved on to some more sites I am starting to think when he feels like it he will email or chat I think he used to send me 3 emails a day and yes everything to me changed after he came back from the 4th I am trying to stick to online dating.

But those like him make me wont to give up I have learned yes I do need to take things slower have more patience it new for me and it is not easy and he mentions making love to me and kills me with do you wont or would like that I do not know you except emailing and talking once on the phone yes I do wont to get to know you how many more times do I have to say it spend time with you why do they get online knowing they are full of it if there is any othe advice such as red flags, how long should you wait before someone asks to met you tell me thanks