Should I move on I say yes

Hi there: I have been doing online dating for a while okay this man and I have been emailing one another going on a month okay he leaves for the 4th and we talk on the phone sends a few emails okay he went 5 days before he emailed again tells me what’s the hurry slow down his job keep him busy okay then this week it’s today before he emails that’s a week he’s been married and divorced he says, now I sorta got mad today his email he says he was up my way yesterday. okay but you cannot try to find me we live 40 minutes away from each other I know and have moved on to some more sites I am starting to think when he feels like it he will email or chat I think he used to send me 3 emails a day and yes everything to me changed after he came back from the 4th I am trying to stick to online dating.

But those like him make me wont to give up I have learned yes I do need to take things slower have more patience it new for me and it is not easy and he mentions making love to me and kills me with do you wont or would like that I do not know you except emailing and talking once on the phone yes I do wont to get to know you how many more times do I have to say it spend time with you why do they get online knowing they are full of it if there is any othe advice such as red flags, how long should you wait before someone asks to met you tell me thanks

Answer #1

Ok my step son met his fiance to be online actually! They did the whole thing emails,texts,and phone calls. For 11 months they did this, then they met. Now my step son has moved in with her and they are going to be getting married. My advice is both of you need to communicate. Hopefully by phone is better, this way when someone is lying to you when you ask questions usually there is a pause, but via text or emails there is not. Basically the 2 of you just need to take turns letting each other speak without interupting one another and voice what they would like the relationship to be like. Let him go first, would be smart probably. Then you will know how each other feels, and find out what each other is wanting. If you still feel like something isn’t right with the guy, then maybe suggest that you guys try being close friends and take it slow getting to know more about each other other, that way if you do find someone else then you can maybe be friends still if thats what you want. Hope this helps, good luck sweetie

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