Should I move

Thats the same situation I am in, except my bother is younger than me. I can’t stand being at home anymore. So I started looking for apartments, I would totally check some out in your area, some of them run for about 500 and include everything. Heat,water, all the basics you need. Of course you have to pay for phone internet and sometimes cable… but thats why most of us have cellphones these days, there really is no need for a home line anymore. I mean if it comes down to it, why dont you switch rooms with your sister, if she is afraid of her room, and not yours why dont you just give her your room and take hers. It will give you some peace at night. If your not looking to get out of the house, try to talk to your mother and step dad, don’t yell about it but make it a calm conversation, tell them hoe you feel about everything, simply suggest for the beginning that your sister starts to help out more because its unfair to you, to have to do everything around the house by yourself. Hope this helped.

if they shout at you again walk out and go stay with your boyfriend for a few days, go back and see how they coped without you, then if they are okay tell them youll only stay if they clean up after them selves and leave you alone without a curfew

Do not move in with you’re boyfriend. Listen to me, I’ve been there…I did it! Don’t get me wrong, I am still happily married and have been for 11 years, but even with all the precaution in the world, pregnancy happened way too early and I feel as if I didn’t even have a life before I started the life of my first childs. If you want your independance, move out to something you can afford. If you can’t afford anything then change jobs. I know you won’t like hearing this, but its a lesson I’ve learned the hard way. Mom and dad are right. it is their house and their rules. if you want you’re own rules…move out, but on your own, not with a boyfriend. At least not until your ready to have a child. I know you think it won’t happen, but it will.