Should I Get My Hopes Up?

ya um the guy I was dating (stephen) well we broke up and I really still want to be with him but he told me that he’s fallen out of love with me. but hten this morning, he told me that he missed me, and then wrote me a note saying how he missed holding me. should I get my hopes up?

Answer #1

nope! Hes not in love with you, he just misses you!! Thats not alot to hold on to. My ex bf is in another relationship, and after 5 months told me he still missed what we had. Whats funny about that is, he broke up the relationship this gf was in at the time, and they had sex the 2nd night. (we didnt have sex)so i seriously dont know what he missed with me.

You cant be with some1 that doesnt wanna be with you. Try not to read into what he says too much. If he doesnt love you anymore, then you have nothing to get youre hopes up about!

Answer #2

What angel said is mostley true BUT….. a thing that woman must realize is most Men don’t realize what they have untill they’ve lost it…and it’s true he does miss you and if he keeps on writing you letters and telling you he misses you it means he still loves you and want’s to be with you…

Just don’t jump the gun, wait atleast 3 months if he still carries on then give him another chance girl ;)

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