Should I be mad? I mean I was stood up in a way.

Story time-

Yesterday I was talking to my friend Taylor. And she told me that she was going to go bowling with her almost-cousin Josh and his Friend that likes her Pat. Taylor was pretty excited about going and I was happy for her, but than she asked if I cared to join her. Now I was a little hesistant because bolwing isn’t my forte and I don’t know either Pat or Josh, but because she asked I told her I would think about it. So than Olivia, a friend of ours mentions to us that the Holiday Stroll* is tonight. And me and Taylor must have been thinking the same thing because at that exact moment we both looked at each other and said we should go to the holiday stroll haha. it was pretty funny. So anyways we were like yes! lets go. And at the end of hanging out with her which was around 3:00pm she told me she would call me. I said ok and knew that she would. But by 6:00 she hadn’t called and than 9:00 came and the stroll ended and she never ended up calling me. At first I was scared than I realized she probably ended up not even hanging out with them and just forgot to call me about the sudden change, but than I text her later and asked if she went bolwing and if she did than I hoped she had fun, of course I thought that she didn’t even go because she never called but than she said she did go BOWLING and I was shocked…why didn’t she say anyhting to me? but I shook it off.

Than today we had a parade for band and I met her there and she told me how much fun she had on the stroll!!! THE STROLL!!! what happened to her bowling story…and than I was like oh well she just forgot to invite me thats ok it happens…but than I find out she invited our other friend. and not me! And she didn’t even say sorry about the night or anyhitng. So I wasted my last night of vacation waiting for a phone call and than finiding out I was stood up lied to and bragged to about such a fun night. What should I do? Do you think that was fair??

Answer #1

I don’t think it was fair, and I honestly think it was pretty mean of her. It’s happened to me before too, and those types of friends, I’ve told them to ‘get back to me when they can be bothered being my friend’.

People like that aren’t worth it. Find new friends that are worth your time.

Answer #2

Things like this happen, you can’t always just wait for someone to call you. If you really wanted to go you should have called her.

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