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How can I convince my girlfriend that I like our sex life?

ok well heres another question to anyone who can help..my girlfriend and I just started having sex..she enjoys it a lot and so do I but she doesnt think so..she thinks that she doesnt do a good enough job like im not getting what I want out of it…she feels like this because well I know a lot more than her like I know how to do things and she really is new to the whole experience..both of us lost our virginity to eachother but she is very insecure about pleasing me she cries sometimes because she feels as if im not enjoying our sex life..I tell her all the time that I do but I think in the back of her mind she still second guesses what should I do to make her feel like she really does satisfy me

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Answer #1

I was the same way… in every way possible, I remember I used to cry almost everytime my boyfriend and I had sex because I thought I wasn’t satisfying him. JUST CONTINUE TO REASSURE HER, she’ll believe it eventually. I was like that so I know how she feels, I don’t feel that way anymore, definitely. She’ll get over, just give her some time to warm up to it, u’ll see

Answer #2

Dear stlawrence, You lost your virginity to each other but you have more experience than she. So this suggests that she has not been your only partner. I hope that you were not still involved with her while you were gaining this experience. Well she doesn’t satisfy you according to your other question…but you fail to talk with her about it. I think you are no were near ready for this type of relationship and you may be causing problems for yourself as well as her. Give yourself a break and wait until you are more mature and ready for a sexual relationship. You sound like you are extremely confused about it all. Sue…good luck

Answer #3

just tell her that you wouldnt want anyone else and that she was perfect.

Answer #4

Do not play the typical comedy situation when the main problem is that the lovers are not able to tell ech other that what is obvious for everybody. If you finished a sex-turn with her, just kiss her, and tell her that she was perfect, and you are satified, and your cmng reached the sky.

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