How long to wait before having sex?

Why do you feel like you have to bring sex into the picture? That doesnt make a relationship, it only complicates it! I really dont think you are 18, judging by all your other questions. If your only in a relationship for the sex, and fun of it, then by all means go for it, but if you really want a boy to like you, and you want a long healthy relationship, you wait until you know this boy is the one you will be spending the rest of your life with. Sex is not something that should be thought of casually. It is so much more than people make it out to be.

Bad Reasons for sex too soon: · A need for sex. · You want the person to love you. · Social pressure to perform. · Nothing more to talk about. · Boredom. · A curiosity to find out if there’s any chemistry. · You want to make someone else jealous. · To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner. · You’re challenging a dare. · An attempt to solidify the relationship.

There is a practical reason for waiting to have sex. Especially very young teens! Premarital sex can detract from a strong relationship and a dynamic sex life. All too often, premarital sex ends up a self-seeking, self-gratifying experience. After intercourse, one partner might be saying “I love you” while the other is thinking “I love it.” In ine of your questions you said your boyfriend doesnt even call you. Do you think that by giving him sex, it will make him call you, or like you more? Well, it wont. If you give it up fast, and easy, he will NOT respect you, only use you! And you arent going to know if its you hes interested in, or just the sex. A boy who truly loves you, will wait forever to have sex with you!