Should I settle down and have kids or be selfish?

I am at a point in my career where I can either settle down with a guy get married all that or buy a buch of toys have fun shop and just be tottaly selfish with my life I dont know what path to take im so torn

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Answer #1

If you just want to have fun then have fun. If you have a kid you cant do that anymore. So just wait until your sure your ready. Its not being selfish its what your doing best for you.

hope I helped, xoxo :)

Answer #2

Since you are asking this way, I must assume that you do not have a particular guy in mind. Continue your career and education. Have outside activities and hobbies. When you find the right guy you won’t be asking this question. Raising a family should never be a consolation prize.

Good Luck!!

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