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ok im 23...the other day I had a really good day and decided to dance and look better for myself ...I have new legwarmers new trainers...bought all new excercise equipment and new clothes looking forward to looking better and pretty but then this thing comes into my head dont do it because scared what people will think?.

it never goes away and my confidence is sooo bad at moment...I know that I can do so much with my life but right now I dont because im scared what people wiill assume and say...theys a bad stigma with my sisters..they easy and sleep around...I dont want people to assume im just like them because im not im so different.. I got a brain!..when I meet lads and get close I back off eventually because my confidence is so low and im still a virgin..I got so close witih this one guy but it went wrong because I wouldnt let it go further I didnt actually believe he fancied me...this feeling wont go away and I so much want to have a relationship be happy and look pretty but I cant stop thinking what people will think though :(...what should I do? stick like this for rest of my life? this has been going on for over 6 years now... im 24 in a month time