When did you have your first relationship?

Just curious or your first date

Answer #1

At 16 and I am still with the same man now four years after. To be honest, I never wanted to begin dating that early, but he just seemed like a very special thing to me.

Answer #2

I think I was about 15… It lasted for about a year, but it was long distance and I could only visit him a few times that year so i like to think that it didn’t really count :p My first serious relationship began when I was about 17. Still going strong:)

Answer #3

I’m 26. I had my first date when I was 13. His sister drove him to my house and picked me up and later drove us to the movie theater. We went dutch, paying for ourselves. Then my mom picked us up after the movie and drove him home before we went home. I had my first boyfriend also when I was 13, different guy from the date. It didn’t go well. We dated for a month and about a week in, he had another girlfriend. I lost a really good friend for a few years even though it wasn’t that bad of a breakup (he broke up with me) and it was nothing serious at all. I didn’t have my first serious relationship until I was 20. That ended because he left for college…and mainly because his parents didn’t think I was good enough for the “baby” boy. (Funny because I’m doing better than him now.). Since then, there’s been three other guys. The last one and I have been an on-again-off-again thing for over two years now.

Basically, best word of advice I can give you is to be sure you know the person for a while (more than just a few months) before you jump into anything or anything serious. The reason the middle two of the last four didn’t work out because of that issue. I’d say waiting until later high school or college is best. People don’t usually really know what they want until their mid 20’s. There’s science behind that-part of your brain that develops reason and stuff until around 25. Sorry that’s not worded better, I’m tired.

Answer #4

My first relationship was when I was getting ready to be 17, I found him at the park, its my children’s dad, we were together about 10 yrs

Answer #5

Well i guess the first date i went on with just her and i was this year and im 16 but i had gone on other dates with other people

Answer #6

Well I kissed my first girl when I was 14. Her name was Dianne, she was 16 and had long black hair. She also had a funny looking tooth and her jeans were all ripped and dirty because we’d been playing outside. There was this big band-aid on her elbow, but she was beautiful. And so cool. Iv’e never been the same since.

Answer #7

I was 13 when I went on my first date, and I was 14 when I had my first relationship. Nothing serious though :b

Answer #8

The beginning of this school year. Only lasted 4 weeks, but it was my first ‘serious’ relationship.

Answer #9

I had my first “girlfriend” in 8th grade. Lasted all of 3 weeks :P. I can’t say we ever went on a date but I did walk her home every day after school. Then she came back into my life about a year and a half ago, and we have now been married for almost 6 months :P.

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