What if I'm not ready?

Hi,

Tell him you need sometime to think. Take sometime and watch the sunset and think about it very long and hard. s*x is very pleasureable but also a huge step. Do not do something you will regret later, if you are having any doubts about it at all. Simply just dont do it, wait till you are totally confertable about it. I hope This helps and I did not intend to offend you. :D

-Steve

He doesnt like you. Any boy that wants to have sex with you is only using you! You dont go around having sex just because you like a boy! You should be in a commited, loving, trusting relationship!

Sex is… both physical and emmotional in nature. risky; you can get pregnant, catch an STD (that may be with you for the rest of your life), have your heart broken or your ego bruised, or feel let down and disappointed when it is over. a milestone; you only get one chance to lose your virginity so you should make every effort to ensure the memory is a good one and that the timing is really right for you AND your partner. not to be taken lightly or treated as recreation. best when it is a personal expression of caring between two people. messy and full of strange, sometimes embarassing noises. Sex is NOT… a way to make somebody love you or make a commitment to you. a test of your love for or devotion to your partner. a measure of how mature or grown up you are. a good way to get back at your parents or assert your independence. *a leisure activity.

Remember, when you have sex for the wrong reasons only you have something to lose!!! Really understand what it means to lose your virginity! Be honest - is it love or lust, peer pressure or trust? Know that it is OK to say “no” at any point in time.