What questions should I ask a girl I just met?

Hi I need some advice here. I just met a girl in a restaurant, she a waitress there, and took her number. I sent her the first sms to ask her out, but she refused cause she was sick. Then, I sms her to a movie again on X’mas day after she sms a X’mas greeting to me, but she did not reply. What is that means? I was wondering is she disliked someone to ask her out by sms? so, im wondering that I should call her out but not sure how to start my conversation since I sms her before. thanks in advance!

hmmmm…thats a hard one.it wud be easier if you knew her in person, cuz then you cud talk about something that u’re both familiar with. if she lives in another state/country, you can ask her wut the weather is like there and how you’ve always wanted to travel there.another suggestion wud be to ask about her family or something like that. being a gurl myself, i’m always flattered to hear a guy ask about my family.it means that he wants to respect both me as well as my family and the other ppl i love.Go for it, and if you have any other questions, you can send me a message.good luck!!

Never ask someone out on a date on X-mas unless you are both into each other. Who knows about the being sick part. They may have been sick. Just take your time cause the message you wrote makes it seem like you are trying too hard and rushing. Try to be friends first and slowly work your way into getting closer. Relationships last much longer if you both are friends.