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What if I start bleeding when he touches me?

my bf and me were talking about him fingering me. i am really scared baout it ut its gonna eventually happen im sure. and he has done it b4 but what happens if i start bleeding if he pops my cherry..do you bleed alot or a little or does it depend on the girl? im really confused about it but im ready. can you please tell me everything you know?

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Answer #1

ok this is the deal ur bf should not completely rush into it by ramming his finger there right away ..my bf took it really slow it was about a 2 -3 week process i now its long but it was worth the wait ..wat he did is ever time we got together and was in our intimate moment he stick his finger in further each time so like lets say day one hed stick only the tip the next time hed stick it in further till he finally was able to stick it in me all the way ..I didnt bleed and u wont if he noes how to do it right but wen he finally gets his finger completey in u hes gonna have to go slow with it a few time then u gradually graduate to faster and harder motions and let me tell u its crazy ..dont worry so much u will love it its jus like doin the reall thing but its alot smaller so if it feels good now u can imagine wen its the really thing =P

Answer #2

if your embaressed about him popping it and it getting messy.. try to put in a finger when your in the bath tub or shower incase you do bleed.. then try two. it sounds werid but itl save the embarasment. If you use tampons then his fingers wont do much to you but the real deal will. some girls bleed alot some dont bleed at all. it all depends on the girl when i had inter. for the first time. I bled like a waterbottle it was everywhere literally! but it dint pour out he didnt fully streatch it so the next 3 times it was painful and bloody its good now but the best way is to start using tampons.. reg- large.:)

Answer #3

The bleeding depends on the girl and to break your hymen your boyfriend would need to go up atleast about 2-3inches and when someone else is fingering you and they rarely do this. If you want you could try fingering yourself to get used to how it feels and stuff but I know alot of people who hate m*sderbation! Just relax and if you don’t feel ready for it tell him this. Don’t do anything you don’t want to ok hunnI! Hope this helped! x

Answer #4

just wait until after!! like two day’s after!!

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