How can I get pregnant already?

Well you did not ask for a lecture, but it seems you rec’d a lot of them, and it is understandable that people would be concerned considering your age and marital status, however, if you feel that you are old enough to have a child and raise it while working then you are old enough to do the research - check out sites that discuss ovulation cycles, they can help. Trying for two weeks is a very short amount of time and most likely you would not be able to get accurate results from a pee test so early on - a blood test would be better. Most importantly, have patience - sometimes these things take time.

I got pregnant young and I now have six children off of this method. After your boyfriend releases inside of you keep your legs up in the air for twenty minutes so that his RELEASINGS will go downward. If that does not work your body still needs time to grow a little. But that is fine, just more practice will be in order.

Oh my goodness…THIS IS NOT A GOOD DECISION!!!

You’re fifteen. Still in school, I assume. Do you know how much it takes to raise a child? By the time a child is 18, their parents will have spent $1,000,000 on them. If you would like to get a job instead of hanging out with friends after school, then go ahead. If you prefer trying to get your child to sleep at night instead of going to the football game, fine. If at 15 years old you think your body is physically matured to endure pregnancy and labor, go for it. What should you do, you ask? Consider what this could do to your life, your boyfriend’s, and most importantly, your child’s.

I am 18, and there have been a couple of times when I wished for a child, and almost became pregnant a few times as well. No one is perfect. In fact, I think the only way I could become complete is to become a mother. I’ve had plenty of chances. Why haven’t I done it yet? I am not financially nor am I emotionally ready for the responsibility of a child.

It’s just my two cents, but since you asked, it is NOT a good idea. Please, please PLEASE RECONSIDER!

Whatever choice you may make, best of luck to you…

Dear amandaax3625, Your mother had you at 15 and you’re fine…no, sorry things are not fine. It is not logical to want a child at 15. You in essence are trying to fill a gap in your life. You may feel that you need to be needed by someone, something and have manifested these feelings into having a child. this is called faulty thinking and encourage anyone at this age who is feeling like they want a child, are able to successfully care for a child to seek out counselling. There they can figure out why you feel this way and teach you to replace the need with logical motivations in life like school, careers etc. Sue…good luck

Think about the long term effects that this decision will bring. “A baby does not a happy home make”. Children are a blessing for sure. BUT they are a tremendous amount of work. Plus, what if your boyfriend moves on? I don’t wish this on you but a baby will add a huge amount of stress to you and to him. Single parents do survive, but barely. What about getting married first? Don’t put the cart before the horse. You’ll need your own place, own car, etc. etc. etc. The allure of a sweet sleeping child lasts only as long as he/she sleeps. You will be responsible for another human being that is completely dependant on YOU. There’s no taking off for the next party, going out whenever you want. The responsibility is on you. Think of all the kids from the broken homes of the country now living in foster care. The system is great but far too over loaded to add “one” more. You asked what you should do. First, finish school, even college,. Get a job. Get married. Then have the life you dream of. Don’t run into something you may regret later. Young mothers everywhere, even though they love their children, often suffer more pain, depression, anxiety and other ailments. Enjoy who you are as a person. You sound like a nice girl. Be one. Don’t be in such a hurry to become an adult as that stage with all its “challenges” are just around the corner.

and don’t get pregant just b/c you want a kid if you have a plan parenthood around, they give you tons of free clothes, diapers, baby furniture and other stuff that you may need. They also give you free pregnancy tests. Get tested and if it’s positive then tell your mother and father and boyfriend at the same time. don’t be ashamed, being pregnant is the gift of life. i got pregnant when i was 13 and the father was 15. Now im 16 and he’s almost 18 and it’s hard to keep a child but would you rather abort? First find out how far along you are. If you are about 5 months and down, you can abort, but it gets you worse emotionally. If you go through you may have complications. I had my daughter 2 and a 1/2 months early b/c i am so small and my body couldnt hold her any longer. as for the boyfriend, i wouldn’t be sure if he would stick around. #1 how old is he #2 does he work #3 do you both plan on staying togther—anyway the only problems i have is that im 16 and don’t feel like a teenager at all. i don’t really fit in and i hate that BUT when everyone’s having kids later on, ill be in the bars lol. seriousely talk to your parents. they will be shocked but if they love you, they will get you through this. if you decide to keep the baby. i would suggest finding a WIC near you for free fruits, veggies, juices, cereal, milk etc.. they give the checks for you and your baby for free for stuff like that. also find like a thrift store like the salvation army and buy cheap baby stuff that you need. in the first 3 months, you may puke a lot, the 2nd trimester, you may be happy and the last trimester, you cant wait for it to arrive!! you glow and your skin actually gets enhanced and everyone loves t see a pregnant mom. once you find out you are, get scheduled for a gynacoligical exam and at about 3-5 months, you can find out the sex of the baby!! talk to me if ya need anyting else.and if you get an abortion past 3 months, they put a tube inside of your vagina and drill a hole into the childs head and suck out their brains. and yes they feel pain!!! when you abort them, you actually see the child after it’s out of you and it’s terrible b/c that could’ve been your child graduating from preschool. don’t hurt the child b/c it was a mistake. everything happens for a reason. i asked god if i could have a best friend b/c i was so lonely and then i got pregnant. by accident of course..

I’m 23 and pregnant and even at my age, its scary and while I’m happy that I’m pregnant, I’ve also means to support the kid that don’t involve my mother paying for all the diapers…have you thought about the fact that you’re shoving a thing the size of a watermelon through a hole approximately the size of a drinking straw?…you seem to think you’ve turned out just fine after being raised by a 15 year old…no offense to your mother but you’re one f*ed up little person…you’re not ready for a kid…how are you planning on supporting it? your boyfriend says he loves you and wants a kid but give him time…I can almost guarantee that he’s gonna sht frisbees when you turn up pregnant and leave…you’re still a baby yourself…why ruin your childhood? find a hobby that doesn’t include oompah-loopah-ing…give yourself a chance to graduate and go to college and get a job before you decide to tie yourself down for the rest of your life because its a lifetime commitment an one that you can’t just decide on on a whim…don’t be stupid

Dont have a child, your to young! So what if other people want you to have a child. Its up to you what you do with your life, and having a child right now would change your life forever. Just because your mom had you when she was young and it turned out okay, doesnt mean that will happen with you. You need to be older, wiser. You should be more focused on getting a job and schooling.

If you have started your period then yes you can but its a stupid mistake because my friend had a baby at 15 and it ruined her life she could not go to school or anything if you think about it when you are older you cant party or do other stuff

First of all: do people even get married anymore? I like to hear how someone and her HUSBAND is trying to have a baby for a change.

Next, do you have a job? Does your boyfriend have a job? How do you think you’re going to raise your kid? Yeah, my grandma had my dad when she was thirteen and he turned out fine as well, but I imagine she didn’t have a pretty childhood. Besides, the time it’s a-changin’. You can’t get any decent job anymore without any degree.

There is a law that says you can’t adopt any kids if you have a low income because that will only mean an extra burden to the government. I wish there were a similar rule for having babies.

Yes, I’m a bitter taxpayer. Sue me.

hey… ok.. my mom was 15 when she had me too. She gave me up bc she just couldnt do it. I had my kids when I was 18 and 21, and even then it was hard. I cant even imagine what it would be like at 15. Its a really long story, but I see my biological mom everyday… and it kills me to think that she was so irresponsible and yet so loving to consider me. She could have killed me… but she gave me life. But that doesnt mean she should have had me on purpose. Please understand that its a full time commitment.. it never ends. YOUR JOB AS MOM WOULD NEVER END. THERE ARE NO BREAKS, THERE IS NO “YOU” TIME. YOU HAVE NO PRIVACY AND ITS USUALLY A BAD IDEA TO DRAG A 15 YEAR OLD GUY INTO IT… THEY ARE IMMATURE AND DONT WANT KIDS… THEY JUST want to GET LAID. PLEASE RETHINK IT. but I cant tell you what to do… what you do is your choice… but you know the right thing to do.

EHHH IF YOU HAVE A BABY AT 15 YOUR SOO GOING TO REGRET IT DUDE. LIKE you WONT EVEN BE WITH THIS LITTLE PRICK BOYFRIEND OF YOURS your WITH NOW. DONT YOU WANT TO GO TO PARTYS AND LIKE DRIVE, LISTEN TO MUSIC HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS,DUDE YOU CANT DO THAT Stuff WITH A BABY. you CANT. your NOT EVEN MARRIED . your 15 JESUS CHRIST. WHAT THE HELL are U THINKING. WHEN your A MOM you SHOULD BE A MOM. NOT A LOSER. NO ONE ELSE SHOULD RAISE your CHILD. you HAVE A CHILD FOR THEM NOT FOR your ENTERTAINMENT. IT FOR THE BABY TO BE A BABY THEN A KID AND your A MOM A MOM!! FOR THE REST OF your LIFE. DO IT BUT ULL FEEL LIKE A PIECE OF CRAP OF A MOM. TORTURING your CHILD THIS LITTLE INICANT BABY GROWING UP AS WHITE TRASH BECAUSE you NEED MENTAL HELP. PLEASE GO GET SOME.. AND FORGET ABOUT THE BABY FOR NOW. AND ACTUALLY YEAH. GET AN ABORTION IF your PREGNANT WE DONT NEED ANOTHER CHARLES MANSON.. LOSER : P

look im tell you from my own experience i had my first child at 15 and not by choice i was raped most said to get an abortion but i couldnt i dont believe in them as well as i couldnt come up with the moral support i need to be going through any of this rasing a child at a young age is very hard to do i end up changing my school 4 time in just the 9months that i was pregnant everyone talked about me and all my so called friends said they would be there well once someone called me a hoe everyone stop talking to me i am know 18 and my son will be 3 years old and he is my life but let me tell you i loved babies but the best part was when they cried i could give them back to their mom and dad yea you might think you are ready to have a baby but it is a life changing moment and hopeful if you do have one this young you have a great support system most likely your boyfirend wont be there he will want to be with his friends not at home raising a child when you too are only children still. talk this over think twice before laying you life down to have a baby maybe even wait a year or two see if things change cause let me tell you it aint easy and my parents well they didnt help at all in fact they kicked me out at 16 even though i didnt choos to have the baby they still did it and i would give anyhting to go back to be able to do anything i would want and have a normal teenage years but instead i had to drop out of high school and begin night school so i could be home during the day to take care of the baby and night school was hard enough i had to bring him to all my classes and hope that he didnt wake up or i would have to leave in till he went back to sleep