Trapt in love hard

It’s going to be tough, but I think that to move on from him, that you’ll need to move on with your life like he has already done. I’m sure you’ll always care about him to an extent, but you have to let him go to free yourself from the trap you’re currently in. If you don’t let him go and keep moving on, you will continue to feel this way. (I know, it’s tougher than it seems. But, it IS possible.) I understand what it feels like to be in such a trap, so I’ll give you some pointers on what I did when I felt trapped.

Firstly, take all of the time you’re currently focusing on him and focus it on something else. Be it a new hobby or doing extra curricular activities, I think that having a healthy thing to do that will keep your mind off of him can help. Secondly, spend time with other people. If you’re used to spending time with him or around him, spend time with other friends AWAY from him. Give yourself that space from each other and allow yourself to breathe some. Thirdly, spend time doing things for yourself. Whether you have a special day of the week that you just pamper yourself or go out with the girls for some fun - do things for yourself that will make you feel happy and relaxed. You deserve the boost. Lastly, let yourself love again and always keep an open mind.

I hope you feel better soon.

Take care.