Why am I always so depressed?

I an a 15 year old girl and I dont know why I am always so depressed I and extreemly self-concious I dont think im pretty at all I feel that I will always be single because all my friends have boy friends but I dont and I always put on a fake smile but when I get home in my room I let it all lose and I cry myself to sleep every night and it realy isnt normal … please help me

Answer #1

Hey, You are so pretty! I think at your age it can be really hard. I know when I was 15 I was the same way. I ended up meeting a great guy at 17 and I am still married to him, I am now the big 30. Just because you don’t have a boyfriend just means you haven’t found the right guy. Most of them will break up anyways, so just be a little more patient and you will be fine… :) And insecurities are normal…I think everyone has insecurities and puts on a fake smile from time to time..

I hope this helps !

Answer #2

Teens go through so much with hormones, other kids bullying and all that teen jass but you know what ? You are your own special person who can do anything they want to with their life. Your like a book in the making. You can make the story as happy or as sad as you like. Its all up to you. Ask your parents for some guidance or a medical check up if you think there is more to it but baby your a star and your cute as a button. I was listening to a song by the sugarbabes today called ugly you should listen to it if you dont know it because it says everything you need to know. xx

And its not about you being ugly so no one thinks im having a go at her lol.

Answer #3

hey you are still young and have plenty of time to find a guy that is really into u! people move at different speeds so I think its k. and it good to let it out and not keep it in forever! crying makes you feel better :) hope this helps!!!

( and im sure your pretty!!!)

Answer #4

Yeah I agree with all the the above I am 19 right now and when I was younger a bout 12,13,14, 15,16,17 I felt the way you felt. You just have to wait for the right guys to come along. right now at your age you shouldn’t care too much about eveyone else because at your age those kids don’t know nothing about love they are just imitating what they see on T.V. so just be patient and it will come to you. I thought I’d never ever have a boyfriend or a relationship and it turns out I have been in a few. This is normal for most teens they all feel akward. Just focus on your schoolwork and focus on keeping your weight down and you skin clear and smooth and keeping your hair shiny and before you know it you will get a young guy like yourself. And things like friends and boys come easier to you when you are not trying so hard just go with the flow.

Answer #5

Ell: It actually is pretty normal kitkat. I used to feel the same way, depressed, lonely and slightly left out. Those “boyfriends” that all your friends have aren’t anything. They’re high school and I doubt any of them can reach anything but simple pablum with eachother. There isn’t any reason to want that and I can guarantee you that you will meet a guy who actually cares about you and will have something better to talk about than how crappy both your parents are. Girls who start dating so early only do it because they feel like they should, they confuse like with love and the first older guy who shows them affection is God to them. They get so caught up in it that they can’t figure out who they like and who they don’t. You’ll be able to recognize it when you like someone for their personality and it s very likely that that guy will like you for your personality as well. If that picture is you sweety you have nothing to worry about. Be a happy independent woman and guys will like you out of respect instead of easiness, Ell

Answer #6

hey girl I think you’re pretty you’ll have a boyfriend one day don’t let that bother you okay just face your studies right now you’ll be fine.

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