Why are my labias different sizes?

Dear sundance07, Most women also have different breast sizes…men sometimes their testicles are different sizes. This is who you are and this is why you do not have such close encounters until their is a commitment with your partner. We don’t choose the people we love by how they look??? We get to know people and choose them for how they make us feel. If your partner makes you feel uncomfortable with the way you look then you have chosen the wrong person. We are not perfect…no one is. If you try to be perfect you will miss out on some very good relationships in your life. Relax and be who you are so that your partner isn’t afraid of not being perfect to you. Sue…good luck

Having labia of different sizes is normal but I understand that it might cause discomfort and embarrassment. I don’t think a guy will find it “nasty” but what’s important is that YOU feel comfortable with your own genitals. I don’t recommend plastic surgery but labiaplasty (surgical reduction of the labia minora or inner lips) is minor surgery. It’s a decision you have to make on your own.

Here you can find out more from a very well known female genital surgeon: http://www.altermd.com/female_genital_surgery.htm

xox Sika

it’s very common and no it doesn’t put men off.