Ok.. This Is Complicated.. I Love Three Guys?

Right.. In My Life Theres These Three Guys.. And They Don’t Know Each Other.. But They Were All My Best Mates (Cliche I Know) Well.. GUY ONE.. I Went Out With Him For About 6 Months But I Ended It Because I Went Through Some Serious ‘’Deppression Issues’’ And I Don’t Really Know Why But I Ended It.. GUY TWO.. He’s Been A Great Mate To Me All My Life And We Went Camping In The Summer With A Load Of Mates And Things Got Carried Away And We Ended Up Together For A Few Months Till He Dumped Me Because I Went To Spain With My Parents For A Month And Didn’t Speak To Him.. GUY THREE.. We Never Used To Get On But Things Changed Earlier In 2008 And We Became Pretty Solid Friends.. We’ve Been Together Three Months Now..

The Question Is: GUY ONE Told Me On Christmas Day That He Still Loves Me Even Though We Broke Up Nearly A Year Before.. GUY TWO And I Have Become Pretty Solid Friends Again But Things Have Changed And I Think I’ve Fallen Back Into A Love A Never Really Came Out Of Again.. And We’ve Both Grown Up A Hell Of A Lot Now And We Trust Each Other With Everything.. GUY THREE Is My Current Boyfriend And We’ve Been Together Three Months And Yes I Love Him.. But Should I Be With Him If I’m Still In Love With GUY TWO?

So The Question Is.. GUY ONE, GUY TWO OR GUY THREE? And Why? Because I’m Really Mixed Up In My Emotions.. Thanks..

Answer #1

Thanks Stephanie but if I wait it out what am I supposed to do in the mean time? Give three guys hope? isn’t that just selfish?

Answer #2

I highly doubt you love ANY of them if you’re in this situation. What I suggest is that you just wait it out and give it time, eventually the right guy will become really obvious to you and that’s when you’ll know who to choose.

Answer #3

First I would go for guy 2…but it depends on if he likes you back then I would go for guy 3 then guy 1

Answer #4

Just tell them you aren’t sure what you want right now and when the time comes you’ll let them know, or tell them you’re confused about your feelings. It’s not selfish my dear, I’m sure they’d rather you tell them that than you leading them on.

In the meantime just get to know each guy more and figure out who you have more in common with, that might take some time but that’s okay. If one gets tired of waiting and walks away you’ll know he wasn’t the right guy.

Answer #5

guy 2. definietely. explain the situation to guy 3 in the nicest manner and try to be understanding if he never wants to speak to you ever again. guy 1, just stop talking to him.

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