Ok.. so she has a boyfriend, but could she like me too?

Ok.. so there’s this girl I was childhood friends with until I was about 14, where we kinda lost contact.. I’m 19 now. At her dad’s 40th, which was around when I was 14, she got one of her friends to ask me out. Me being a stupid little boy, I rejected her.. now I reget it. but how could I see her at the age of 14 anyway when she live like 2 hours away??.. Anyway, I’ve only seen her a few times since.. she was at my dad’s funeral like 2 years ago and shes been to mine once or twice since.

Recently she added me on msn myspace and we’ve been talking heaps. I’m even talkin to her right now. I talk to her more than I talk to my close friends now, and sometimes I think shes the same. I find our conversations easy and effortless when I talk to her which I dont normally get when I talk to girl on msn or in real life. We tease each other etc and the other night she was tellin me she was naked (if that even means anything, but anyway). I’m starting to like this girl and I think she could like me too, I have that gut feeling when someone like me which has worked before, BUT…

After reading her myspace (or stalking, whatevs) I found that apparently she has a boyfriend.. not only that but they’ve been going out for 4 years… what? that means she was 15 when they got together?? I thought high school relationships weren’t supposed to last that long..

Whatever, my point is.. it’s just so hard to believe she has a boyfriend, I’ve’e been talking to her for like a week or more and she hasnt mentioned anything. (at the same time though I have been avoiding the subject) Maybe because of msn I could be just reading this all wrong? Maybe she is just naturally flirtacious?? idno

I’m going overseas in a month or 2 and shell be there aswell. Im wonder if theres anything I can do. I certainly dont want ruin anyones relationship. I was thinking he could be just a really close guy friend but theres like ‘I love you’s on her myspace aswell. Now I like this girl I dunno what to do.. why do females have to be so confusing? maybe im just getting the wrong picture? help please