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Is this normal in relationships?

I’m 15 turning 16 years old and I got my first girlfriend. We see each other every weekend because we aren’t at the same school. Both of us are going to the dance but her father first wants to check me out. I don’t know what he wants to see about me. But I’m fine with it and all of that, I’m an honest person.

Is it normal in relationship for a girlfriend’s father to check you out

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Answer #1

Yes. Most father’s are more protective of their daughters. Quite natural. They eant to protect their daughter from any harm or hurt, and most teenager boys want one thing, sex fathers tend to cringe at that. He wants to make sure you are a good guy, a respectful one, one who will treat his daughter right. Just fathering instincts.

Answer #2

Unfortunately nowadays it is not so normal,it used to be tho…And that is how it should be,shows her parents care about her…a nice family means nice people = Good stuff. Just be polite,maybe reasure the father that you will look after her,respect her and his wishes.

Answer #3

Yea normal. Maybe her dad is being protective of her. It’s ok don’t freak out, totally normal. He wants to know you better and make sure you’re the right one for his daughter. Be good to your girl, and that will prove it to him. Oh, and don’t be dirty. Her dad will think your a bad influence on his little girl. Be sweet and kind, and act natural around her dad when he “checks you out”.

Answer #4

The day that it becomes not normal will be the day the world ends.

Answer #5

Don’t worry, her father just wants to see if you are a respectable guy. Dress nice and be polite. If you follow those rules he’ll be alright with you. Also don’t lie about anything. This is very normal. My father did it and tons of other girl’s fathers did it. Don’t worry.

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