Is there a nice way to tell someone you don't want to hang out with them tonight?

Answer #1

Yeah : “I’m busy.”

Answer #2

I have something else tonight or I don’t feel good.

Answer #3

Say your busy, made other plans or visiting relatives :)

Answer #4

Sorry, I’ve just had a huge argument with my mum and she won’t let me out. that always works :)

Answer #5

In my day it was always “Oh, I have to wash my hair” – incredibly transparent but got the message across. I had a friend who managed to sound like a broken record… (if you don’t want the lie to be that big), just say, “I wish i could but it’s impossible.” “Why?” “It’s just impossible.” “But why??” “It’s impossible, sorry… k bye now” – Of course this is assuming you don’t want them to ask you again and you never want to hang out with them.

If you just want tonight to do other stuff but would gladly hang with them in a few days’ time, then you really have to be diplomatic and probably a little more honest. “I honestly don’t feel like company tonight, and it’s a rare chance for me to get some stuff done.”

Answer #6

but heres the thing, when he asked me i told him i didnt know what i was doing yet, because it was honestly true, other people had already asked me to do things so i really had no idea now hes pissed because im doing those other things

Answer #7

i usually use my mom said no, or im busy but they kinda dont apply, because im going to do the same things he asked me too, but with other people

Answer #8

Just say you don’t feel like doing anything tonight.

Answer #9

tell him you have other plans and that her should put his big boy pants on and do something else.

Answer #10

already have plans

Answer #11

Fought with family

Answer #12

Just say your not feeling well, thats what I always say.

Answer #13

ugh im in the same situation. just ignore them

Answer #14

have a very important phone call you have to wait at home for :)

Answer #15

Don’t lie because it always seems to come back to bite you. Just be truthful and if that doesn’t work for that person, then they must take things really personally!

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