need help...urgent...problems with a girl...

first figure out how you feel about her…then ask urself why u miss her..and if she’s going to college then c if shel com go to school near you and go from there

the problem is that I dont know how to decide how I feel about her… when im with her…I feel completely differente…the whole butterfly’s in stomach, etc, etc… but now that im home from camp and were hundreds of miles away…I like forget about her and stuff…but then I see that shes on msn or smthn…then like I totaly miss her and feelings come back…then the next day im normal…dont think about her at all…

if you don’t want this.. don’t have it. I think you missed the memories and it was awkward because you didn’t know how to act around her because there wasn’t anything left. Keep a friendship and that’s it. She can be a good friend, but take a break until you move on. Remove everything that reminds you of her, but photos into boxes, delete texts, contact, EVERYTHING. Make yourself a clean slate. Usually when you think you like someone, you don’t realize the other opportunities out there. Put your self back into the playing field. And heck, if it is meant to be for you two to be together, it’ll happen, have faith. But right now, move on. I hope I helped.

It doesn’t sound like its true. when its true, you always think about them, everything you see and do reminds you of them some way. Look… I think the IDEA sets you al happy