Should I pay more attention to my close guy friend?

this guy that I’ve been with since april. if ya read my last 2 questions youll understand this one. anyways um okay now I have this guy that im close goodfriends with. well um I considered him my close guyfriend. anyways I dont maybe want to accept it now but I feel like I want to have true feelings for him on a boyfriend level. because we are only goodfriends an weve been good friends since 4 years now an whenever I do see him it always like refreshing an hes so pleasant to be around he so desent an respectful an nice, an his always pays me attention when were talking to each other and his always the true him never nothing odd bout him. and keep in mind his just a close friend of mines. an my boyfriend never treats me right an he always leave me hangin,he never callls me an um he pays attention more to his homegirls. he has to many homegirls. theres needs to be a limit to that. anyways I care about my boyfriend but he about to lose me an hes pushed me over the because he always mistreats me an he always goes an sits by his homegirls in church an not me an im his homegirls. an my close guyfriend always so mild-mannered an always so concern bout me. so what ya think?should I pay close attention more to my close guyfriend that pay me atttention an so concern for me?or let go of my up and down boyfriend thats treats me totally wrong an pays attention to his homegirls all the time?