Options in my Proposed Marriage?

Sorry for the delayed response. I was married to my aunt in a religiously arranged marriage on 24 th Feb 2008. I don’t find any problem with her. I am very happy. A strange happening is that her ex husband (my uncle) too attended the marriage. If you feel like knowing the details as to how my marriage was celebrated, I can tell you.

If this isn’t what you want, don’t do it. You made some mistakes, but you don’t need to tie yourself down for the rest of your life to make up for it.

Yes

Yes, She is my ex AUNT. She is 56 years old. Negotiations are on. In about a week,a decission will be taken by both the parties. She has agreed.And I am interested. She need not consult her ex husband.But I may have to consult him because he is my uncle.Her sons and daughters have no objection. Will you please give a thought and provide me an advice

Madam, Whatever you have adviced me is true.I admit it fully. But the fact is that I am the reason for her divorce. I had a relationship with her for the past one year. My uncle divorced her bacause of her relationship with me. Please tell me whether I can desert her. Among Muslims,a muslim boy can marry the widow or divorced wife of his father’s brother or of his mother’s brother provided she is not a sister to his parents. Hence there is absolutely no problem as for as religious opinion is concerned. Secondly my uncle has nothing to do since he has no right over her after divorce. My mother is supporting me Her sons and daughters have been consented.They are not coming in her way of life and assured me of their support for me. There is absolutel no objection from any of our relatives You may now give me your thoughts. I am really thankful to you for your good gestures.

No response from you. How are you ? Do you feel bad of me ?

So you feel obliged to marry her???

You’re ex aunt?

I am 23 years old She is 56 years old

What do you mean, proposed? You want to marry her?

Yes, I want to marry her. Please provide your opinion.

How old are you?