my mum wont even let me mix around with girls

ok..im 13..I am from a all boys school.and just only I went to my friends house for a party,then I have no idea why she just came to check on me,then she saw me with my guy friends and 2 girls,they were wearin bum shorts..when I went home,she said I was a idoit to start so young..I just said they were my friends,she said I was a idoit and the girls look cheap…all be cause all 6 of us was in my friends bed room,6 guys and 2 girls…how can I tell my mum I dont like them and I just treat them as friends…how can I tell her that im ok and make her trust me,I mean im going to be sec 2(grade 8)next year..and I just treat them as friends..and I dont plan on havin a relationship till maybe 15

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Answer #1

I would sit down and talk to your mother. Let her know that you relize you are young and she wants what is best for you. I am not sure what the Bum shorts have anything to do with. But tell you mom you are not stupid and that you are not sexually active and don’t plan on it for awhile. Let her know if and when you may have questions you may come to her for guidance and not let her feel left out. If you treat the matter like a adult, your mother will relize that you are smart and can make good choices for yourself. It is hard for mothers to let there “babies” grow up. So let her know she will always be your mother no matter how old you are, and you will always need her guidance but she has to trust you. And yuo have to give her good reason’s to trust you.

Answer #2

Your only 13 years old, your mother is just trying to protect you in the best way she knows how. The way the world is going these days and young people getting pregnant left and right, you have to try and see things from her perspective. You are getting older and she still sees you as her little boy. She is doing all she can to protect you from the world and from things that can ruin your life.

Also, no mother wants to see her son hanging around girls who are dressed like skanks.

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