My little brother might have autism

My little brother is getting tested for a mild case of autism. He has all the signs and im really worried. I don’t know wt to do. Im freaking out!!!

Answer #1

It’s not the end of the world, even if your brother does have either Autism or Aspergers Syndrome. I have Aspergers Syndrome, but people who talk to me think I am just a normal healthy person. Some people even think I am smart, although only in some ways. There will probably be a few learning difficulties and other things. Easily being distracted, easily upset, unable to read body language, unable to understand some things people may say, short memory, poor hand-eye co-ordination. Probably the most embarrassing thing is that I have never been able to ice-skate, go on a bicycle, rollerskate, swim or do many sports. But not all people with Aspergers Syndrome would necessarily have these problems. It’s usually different for everyone. Autism is a bit more complicated though. It can be very frustrating for those who are diagnosed with it. If you’re keen on understanding a bit more about this sort of thing I can recommend two things. A film called “Rain Man”, which is about a man with Autism. It’s a bit funny and sad too. If you prefer to read, I’d recommend Mark Haddon’s “The Curious Incident Of The Dog In The Night-time”. It’s about a 15 year old boy with Aspergers Syndrome, and it’s quite a good book to read. I’d have to say though I thought it showed more about Autism than Aspergers Syndrome, mainly because I don’t think I’m as bad as that (lol). But in the end, you shouldn’t worry. Your brother will get all the help he needs plus much more. He’ll still be your little brother, no matter what he’s diagnosed with. I hope this helps you a bit.

Answer #2

my little cousin whos about 2 has autism so if your brother does its not really much of a problem you just have to keep an eye on him and make sure the things hes constanly doiung arnt dangerouse also interact with him and play along if he does something over and over it might wear you out a bit too so be prepared! but he can also learn things like letters and numbers and all that it might take some practice and repetitive reminding but he’ll start to get it

Answer #3

If he does have Autism or even Aspergers, you will finally know the best ways to interact with him. A label won’t change who he is, it will help you and your family and friends understand him better.

Answer #4

just be informed regarding this disability so you can understand it, and your brother as well. you just have to accept him from what he is because his condition is not his choice. it’s sad to think that these people are stigmatized and the hell that they will go through because of other people’s prejudices. your brother needs your patience, love and understanding.

Answer #5

You must have Empathy for him which makes you an empath. Though it’s a noble thing to be (feeling other peoples pain), it can make for a horrible way to live. I know because I do the same thing. When my cat was sick, recently, I got sick too. That’s pretty bad but I just care about him so much and I think that is what you may be dealing with. Go here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empathy#Touch

Answer #6

Honey, my little brother has autisim. He couldn’t speak until he was 4, and he’s what most people would consider, ‘socially challenged’. But when he’s interested in something, he’ll stick with it, and you can ask him one little question about it and he’ll know absoloutly everything. No worries Chicka! Just chill, he’ll be fine, and so will you.

Answer #7

Autism kids are just like everybody else. They don’t look any different. They just act different and learn different. You have nothing to worry about.

Answer #8

Once he gets diagnosed, read as much as you can about autism and Aspergers. Nerd is absolutely right – if he is somewhere on the autism spectrum, you do need to be aware, and allowances have to made for him. Many succesful people suffer from autism and there’s lots of support for families out there. Try not to worry. But its certainly not to be ignored and not to be taken lightly, This is a lifelong ailment that needs constant attention. If you’d like to write to me, I can help, as a parent of one.

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