What if my guy friend told me he loves me?

You need to stop with the profanity brokenxxx^^^. Not too mature!!

If he has a girlfriend, and a child, what is he doing going around telling another girl he “loves” her? Every girl would fight to be with a player like him. C’mon, this guy is messing with your head, and your falling for it. Do you realize how many married men tell their mistress’ that they “love” them? a lot!! But the mistress is usually the one left standing alone!!

Here’s a list of things a guy does when he DOESNT love you:

he doesn’t treat you like you’re a top priority in his life he’s nice to you mainly when it’s convenient for him (like right before sex) he checks out on you emotionally for long periods of time, and acts like you’re crazy and/or needy for wondering why he’s openly critical of fundamental things about you that you can’t change he seems to enjoy your company, but it’s as though he hasn’t decided that you’re the special woman in his life he shuts you out of big parts of his real world and inner life he keeps telling you that he’s not good relationship material, but he doesn’t discourage you from sleeping with him he takes no emotional risks for you, but doesn’t object when you take emotional risks for him he gets irritated with the vulnerability you feel in the relationship he rewards you for being “strong” and/or “understanding” when he does things that he knows hurt you

^Now you tell me if he really means what he says^ (But then again, what do I know. Im not 15, and naive)

dude there is nothing like that going on

If you want to keep driving yourself crazy over someone who doesnt return your feelings, then by all means, go for it! Love isnt love until its returned!

Well, if he really did “love” her xxxlostxxx, then why isnt he with her? ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS in case you havent heard that saying!

What do you tell people? I “love” this boy, and he SAYS he “loves” me, but he has a girlfriend!

What are you not getting? He already knows how you feel about him, and he hasnt done anything about it. Hes STILL with his girlfriend…so I dont know how you can even think he “loves” you? He obviously doesnt know what love is, or he wouldnt be throwing that word around!

You need to get over this ONE-SIDED little crush, because hes made his choice, and it looks like hes sticking with her!

thanks but he already knows how I feel about him,even though he drives me crazy.I NeVER stop thinking about him

Truth hurts doesnt it? Being naive, and vulnerable will get you in trouble EVERYTIME!!

Some boys like to love to girls.

Well, then you need to open up your eyes, because guys will say ANTHING to get what they want!

well Im NOT naive.

I’m sorry sweetie, but if he loved you, he wouldn’t still be with his girlfriend, he would be with you.