My girlfriends getting increasingly insecure about her weight.

I often tell her I love her and I hug her a lot and am really affectionate from cuddling her on the sofa to stroking her arm etc etc. but she seems to push me away a lot of the time like shes arkward with me touching her body. I havent told her that I miss her confidence. thats a great idea I think I need to make a point about that.

19s a little better. Well I figured that you love her. I’ve dealt with girls before but I’ve never had a girlfriend before so I just answer to the best of my knowledge.

1. dang sex at 14 or 13. . you gotta make her feel special and whenever she says shes fat, always tell her that she looks better then ever. Coming from me ( a guy) if you love a girl it doesnt matter what she looks like. Just keep on complementing her. And if it helps make her feel really special when you 2 are having sex.

Good luck, Koski95

oops I think I didnt put my age in when I signed up just. im actually 19! im not 14. I’ve tried telling her how nice I think she looks and I’ve tried be to as affectionate as possible but she feels so arkward because of her insecurities that shes definately not as affectionate as she was with me. Her weight doesnt matter at all to me. I think she looks great and I dont understand how she can feel so bad about herself but I just want her to feel confident around me and for her to feel good about herself. this has nothing to do with me losing attraction to her because im completely in love with her.

the next time she says she’s fat you should comfort her not by panicking but by physically soothing her, you know what I mean. You need seven hugs a day to be truly happy. Be more cuddly to show you are attracted to her. Have you told her you miss her confidence and that you truly feel as though she doesn’t need to be self-conscious and that you love her? You should if you haven’t