My friends all bailed on me

Ugh what czn I do about all of my close friends? Kay so we all are now moving into hs, and were all llik splitting to dif schools, and rite now, everyones like being so mean and leaving me out of like everything, while they hang together, and leave me out, and now they wont even return my txts? Or they just say I gtg and stuff like in the second message..and lately everyone I talk to ther always disagreeing with me! I dont get it? I didnt do anything! So like now at summer school, im all sad and stuff because I feel like they have abandoned me! And like my close friends know about my depression issues, im trying so hard to not go back to hurting myself and being bulimic again. Well sometimes I do it, and like im not telling them, because they probably wont even care anymor esince they all gave up on me like now.

Waht shud I do?!?! Ims o confused and sad and just trying to have fun with my summer vacation

Answer #1

They are definitely not being your friend - forget about them, pull yourself up with a positive attitude and make yourself some great new ones…you can do it !!

Answer #2

Simply a Rose to brighten your day,         And maybe lessen the cares in your way;         And also, too, to help you to know,         That in knowing you, many others grow!

  Just start thinking Positive. Do the things you enjoy doing and associate with those friends who are still friendly with you.

Don’t worry about it though. When you start high school you are going to develop lots of new friends, many of whom may end up being friends for life.

Remember, you do have friends here on Fun Advice who you can Fun Mail at any time that you need to. DON’T try to suffer through your “down” periods by yourself. Reach out and touch one of us.

Since you mentioned that you do have a couple of “problems”, I am adding two links below.

  Information on eating disorders:

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/eating_disorder_help_support.htm

  Information on self injury:

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/self_injury.htm

  Information on teen depression:

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_teen_teenagers.htm

Answer #3

You should totally forget about your friends and sure its going to be hard and you probalby won;t totally forget about em but at least you’ll be able to make nice new friends come’on you can do it.

Answer #4

that happened to me once you have to make changes to be more like your friends and im sorry to hear that if you need to talk to me im listening :D

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