My friend's funeral and my boyfriends birthday are on the same day

Wow We Have The Same Problem

If your boyfriend is truly a friend he will understand..make it up on a different day…death never comes as friend and is always inconvenient.

he’s not having a party. he’s going to be left alone the whole day if I’m not with him because before the accident with Nick happened, I did give my boyfriend my words telling him I’m going to spend the whole day with him on his birthday :(

yep, you can go to both if youve got the day to spare first go to the funeral, as hat one sounds more important you should be able to stay there untill its over or almost over then go to your boyfreinds party and celebrate with him if hes having a party later on in the day it will be easier if he isnt, you could try doing things the other way around but yeah…just tell him you need to go to your freinds funeral, but youll also come to his party…he should understand

Do to the funeral, then to the party. Your b/f should understand your problem, as all of us, he is also a mortal.

He will understand go to your friends funeral and its ok to leave just go for a while and show some respect to him