what should my friend do when she thinks she's pregnant?

My friends sh**anne thinks she pregnant

She wont take a test because her mom will see her buy it

She needs a way to get rid of the baby without abortion

Is there a way to do it..like falling or sumthing

If her parebts find out her dad will really kill her

Im scared for her

Please helpp

Answer #1

Im sorry to say that is the most horrible thing to want to get rid of a baby that she made. If she is grown up enough to have intercourse she should face the consequences or blessing I like to call it. tell her to watch the movie juno, and also read up on how a fetus has fingernail!!! and everything by the time your 5 weeks!

Answer #2

She needs to just be honest it might actually go better than she thinks. Of course she’s going to think there going to kill her. She should tell her parents as much asshe doenst want to, she needs to.

Answer #3

She should NOT find a way to kill her baby.That could be extremely dangerous,to both her,and her baby. I would have her ask a trusted adult to get her the pregnancy test she needs,or have another adult-other than her parents get her to the doctor as soon as possible.

Killing her baby wont make her unpregnant,it will just make her the mother of a dead child.

Honestly though,I really think she should wait a while,decide if she’s sitll pregnant,and just tell her parents.Itll be hard,of course,but theyll find out sooner or later.

Answer #4

Be a good friend and go buy the test for her - then go from there.

Answer #5

if the baby gets hurt it can definitely hurt her

Answer #6

my friend thinks shes pregnant too.. shes only 13 and I fear the worst for her…could anyone give me some help???

Answer #7

YOU should get her a pregnancy test. I’ve done that for a few friends before.. If she is pregnant tell her to NOT try to fall down the stairs or anything stupid like that. That wont do any good and chances are she’d just get hurt. Like mrscobainx3 said, killing the baby wont make her not be a mother and will just make her a mother of a dead baby! I know people whove gotten abortions and they hate themselves for it now. she HAS to tell her parents if shes pregnant. It will work out better than you think..

Answer #8

there are clinics for teenagers…everything is confidential meaning that none of the employees there will tell her parents…go on the internet or even in the phone book and look one up…tell her to go there and tell them that she does not work and they will do everything for free. they can test her for pregnancy. tell her to ask the doctors what would be the best way to go about the pregnancy… I think its a good idea for her to tell her parents as much as she would hate to… its easier said than done but its the best way.

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