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My ex needs space

Hey im am 18 and my 27 yr old boyfriend broke up wit me a few weeks ago he says he needs to get over some things and figure his life out … Im fine wit that but everyday he changes his mind. He wants to hook up then he just wants to be friends… He wants me to call him. Then he tells me to leave him alone… He wants to see me and now hes telling me he wants to go back out wit me but he needs a few weeks to himself …so he said not to call him and when hes ready hell calll I realy love him and I havent been this happy in a long time but now im miserable that hes putting med through this … Does anyone have any idea of what I should do

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Answer #1

I think you should stand up to him… I know it’s easier said than done but some guys need to get rude shocks in order for them to realize what their putting the girls through..llike you should not listen to him all the time.. once he says he wants space ask him for long and for that time completely ignore him, his calls and every thing… the next time he will be careful what he asks for if he really deosn’t want the space.. so in a way.. your giving to him exactl what he wants and on the other hand you’re also letting him know how it really feels to have space specially since it seems like he doesn’t really like the space… you should also find out if he’s having a hard time at home with some family problems that he needs time off from other thing like a relation ship.. I think this should be your first step finding out what is going on in his life right now… I hope I helped tc do not let him play with your feeling like this ok…

Answer #2

He’s treating you like sh*t. Don’t let him do that to you, you deserve so much more. In my opinion it seems like he’s stringing you along just to have someone to fall back on. Stand up for yourself, if he calls to “hook” up tell him no. Tell him that you don’t want to talk to him until he can decide (definately) what he wants. Tell him that it’s not fair to you for him to be treating you like this.

Good luck

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