My dad and the babysitter

Okay not to long ago I came home and my dad and the babysitting was doin it,and should I tell my mom,while my lil sister was in her bed sleep was was on her floor

Answer #1

no

Answer #2

Your Dad “the adult” should have known better…shame on him!… How’s the relationship with Mom? If you can talk to her, you should but it will be awkward…she may not believe you… If Dad did it once he may do it again and Mom will find out…I don’t envy you in this…has Dad apologized? Just remember our parents are not perfect and make mistakes…

Answer #3

yes you should b telling it to your mm. dont betray your mom

Answer #4

all I have to say is if you were in your mom’s shoes, would you want to know? I know I would!!!

Answer #5

Tell your mom because she might not be thinking anything is wrong but YEAH somethings wrong TELL HER!!! GO NOW!!!

Answer #6

HEELL YEA GIRL…TELL MOM!!! TELL MOM !!!TELL MOM!!!

Answer #7

uhhh…well that’s creepy. But yeah I think you should tell her!!! Definetly

Answer #8

gross, but you should definitley tell her! or talk to your dad about it!

Answer #9

talk to your dad and warn him if he doesnt tell her you will.. but make sure he knows you love him and dont wont them to split but she needs to know.

ii no my dad was having a affair with this lady and when my mum found she was upset and well they split up but they got back together for me and my brothers.. (:

you need to tell her if he doesnt

does he know you caught them ?

Answer #10

let him be, its less you mom has to do, and hes happier

Answer #11

Best of luck to you. It could either work out well for you, or completly backfire. The sad thing is, if he’s done it now…then he will do it again probably

Answer #12

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  Well, I guess I have to go against the grain. I don’t think YOU should tell your mom. If you do and it causes problems in the family then you will always be the one who is considered the “bad guy” who broke up the family.

Better off would be for you to talk with your dad about it and request that he come clean about it with your mom. Don’t threaten him, just explain that that is the honest thing to do.

If he doesn’t tell her, then simply forget about it. If it is his first infidelity then it isn’t worth possibly breaking up the family over, and if it’s not his first then your mom probably already knows about his flings and she would be much happier thinking that YOU didn’t know about them.

Answer #13

I definitely would… no offense but I think that’s ridiculous!! at least go to a motel you know??!! im really sorry that happened though… my step mom cheated on my dad with his friend in our house and would invite him over for bar-b-ques and would flirt with him in front of all of us!!!

Answer #14

woah well I think you should hint at it be like at the dinner table or something hey dad so I noticed you think the babysitters kinda cute right something like that just dont get yourself in2 trouble .

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