My brother

I think that I hate my brother but I cant b sure. he is always putting me down and he says things like ‘u are so lazy and fat you need to learn how to do something’ and I do as much work as him. he also calls me a druggie and im not. sometimes he can b nice and almost like a friend but he just goes right back to putting me down. I just want him to stop. what should I do?

Answer #1

He’s a brother. Brother’s love to be jerks sometimes.

Talk to him about it. Tell him it hurts when he makes all those comments and how would he like people to say that to him. What goes around comes around.

Otherwise, just ignore them and make a smart comment back. :) It really shuts them up!

Answer #2

Laugh at it and take it jokingly whether it bothers you or not.

Big brothers pick on you and it hurts. But you have to have the confidence in yourself.

He’s just pressin your buttons and trying to get a reaction out of you. Don’t give in.

He’s your brother, you can never truly hate him. Try it and let me know.

Answer #3

I use to have the same problem ,I have an older brother and we use to fight a lot when we were younger, If you dont want him to say hurt full things then let him know that what he is saying is really bothering you, One day I got so fed up with my brother I did the most adult thing possible I told him that we were both in this house till were 18 (I live in Canada) and were ganna have to live with each other so we might as well be nice to each other and to my surprise it worked. So on those days when he looks like he had a bad day just stay out of his path and try to be as understanding to him as possible. And if that dont work let your mother know how hes been treating you. Hope I helped :) . Yours turly, Demika Ray

Answer #4

my brothers the same, it can get so annoying! just either ignore it or laugh. I laugh when my brother does it to me and say something like ‘yeah sure’ and he keeps saying it to annoy me but when he sees im not getting annoyed, he stops :]

Answer #5

My brother does that too. And we love each other. He’s just bothering you because he loves you. If he hated you, he wouldnt waste his time bothering you.

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